SWSWSW-N!  You’re probably thinking what on earth do the letters above mean? Is it a typo?

I heard this on the news on the radio this morning. It is the working motto of the chief executive of a call center. This is his mantra to his staff who are trying to generate new customers by phoning them up.  When the other person either puts the phone down, ends the call abruptly or is just not interested, he wants them to go through this thought process.

So what does SWSWSW-N mean?

“Some will, some won’t. So what! Next.”

In other words, it’s the philosophy that says, “if at first, you don’t succeed, try, try and try again. In the words of Our Lord, “shake the dust from your feet.”

So, when despite all your best efforts to achieve something important by persuasion, advocacy or persistence, you just don’t get anywhere, then SWSWSW -N might be a useful mechanism for emotional resilience to obstinacy.

That’s not an excuse to give up totally on individuals because the Lord never does, even if He has to wait and wait and wait.

One day we may need patience and forbearance of another. So, let’s never give the other an excuse to think SWSWSW-N.

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Edmund Adamus

Edmund and his wife Catherine have been married for almost 18 years and have been blessed with 3 children; Patrick (who awaits them in Heaven), Paul and Beatrice. After 13 years of ministry in the Salford diocese and gaining a Master's in moral theology, he served the Archdiocese of Westminster from 2003-16 as Director for Pastoral Affairs/Marriage & Family Life. He successfully established the Annual Mass of Thanksgiving for Matrimony in Westminster cathedral as well as the Annual Theology of the Body Lecture series hosting world renowned scholars such as Michael Waldstein, Janet Smith and Christopher West. Christian Meert was also among those speakers. All his work both past and present has been through the prism of the truths of Humanae vitae. Since 2019 he has been Education Consultant to the relationships and sexuality formation project 'A Fertile Heart: Receiving & Giving Creative Love'. As freelance consultant he works as Secretary to the Commission of Inquiry into Discrimination Against Christians in the UK and has just been appointed Executive Director for the UK branch of the International Voluntary Solidarity Fund

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